Notice the title of this
blog: It’s Time to Take the
Scaffolding Down
This title came as I
recalled a Sunday school lesson I attended many years ago when the Pastor
compared our parents to the scaffolding (temporary, movable platform or a supporting
framework) on a building. He stated that
when construction is completed and the building can stand on its own the
scaffolding is removed.
I remember the tears
flowing as God showed me in that moment through that simple metaphor why my
mother passed away when I was 19 years old. The supportive structure she had provided
during the first 19 years of my life needed to be removed. I needed to stand on my own. And I did stand…why? It was the grace of God and because my foundation
and development had reached a point where I was able to stand on my own. At the time my mother passed away, I was not
able to comprehend this; nor was I willing to accept it. It felt as though the scaffolding had been
stripped away. It took many years for me
to reach acceptance and understanding of this and to realize that God was
orchestrating a purpose and a plan for my life.
Consider the scaffolding in
your life.
As you reflect on the scaffolding
in your life, realize that scaffolding comes in a myriad of forms ranging from
parents, children, or other family members to relationships, jobs, habits, or
hobbies, sickness, grief, and more. Each
person must identify his or her own scaffolding and through prayerful
consideration determine if that scaffolding is blocking or hindering your
forward progress.
Does it sometimes feel as
though your scaffolding has been stripped away?
Are you still feeling wobbly? Perhaps
the scaffolding represents a temporary situation in life that needs repairs.
There is much more I will
say regarding scaffolding. As you ponder
this first blog post, I welcome your comments.
SharB~TTSD
#TakeTheScaffoldingDown
SharB~TTSD
#TakeTheScaffoldingDown
I have watched you through the years secretly annotate your life experiences and beliefs to yourself. I thank God you have now stepped out to let the world be blessed by the love, intellect, and beautiful you have as a woman. Keep writing SharB, because they will read, I love you Hubby.
ReplyDeleteI can't even begin to tell you how much your love and support mean to me. I love you too!
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This is really good. An excellent metaphor. I would even dare to suggest further that the scaffolding is seasonal so many times. People, places, and situations are often merged with us for a season and when the need has been met, cirucmstances suggest that a fork in the road is best at that point. Praise God for your blog, SharB.
ReplyDeleteCuz T.
Thank you Cuz T. I agree that scaffolding is often seasonal which indicates we may be going through a harsh winter storm or just breezing through a cool summer day. Regardless, approaching the fork in the road is an opportunity for decision. Hopefully for education, growth, and progress.
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SharB,
ReplyDeleteThank God for your giftedness. You do have a lot to say...a lot of helpful words that serve as Balm in Gilead for others who are hurting or just need encouraging. Thanks for being authentic and transparent. Peace and Love. mat